Email: Catholic mates [JB]

Men are insecure that way [leaving women who won't be codependent on them]. Well, the insecure ones are. Is it their fault they are that way, their fault they convince women to marry them, or the women's fault for believing and marrying them? No one can say without living through the individual situation.

[Catholic] Mingle is dead quiet and I don't think many men are on Eharmony. Men get many matches [there] but no woman I know there gets matches often.

I was Catholic for 40 years before moving to Houston. Catholics can often be good mates so long as they're not insufferable; Catholicism has and imparts many strengths, so long as it is not regressively and inflexibly conservative.