Email: Earth, not Mars or Venus [EH]

Men predominantly adopt the sex-then-love approach -- that is the basic Mars-Venus message -- but it is wrong not because women's way is the right way per se but because love-then-sex is what women need. You can't build a two-way relationship based only on what the man wants and a two-way relationship implies (and requires) that the man gives the woman what makes her happy (since love is primarily about happiness not sex). Any man who cannot come around to that understanding is not going to have a successful two-way relationship.