Email: Dating advice for women [VI]

I think these self-defeating behaviors in women (devotion to men who don't respect them) are learned from prior emotional frustrations or trauma. Have you ever seen a person who subconsciously sabotages their own chances for success at their job or career? Same thing but in love, methinks. And the weird thing about passive "victims" or "losers" is that "users" or "takers" (predators) can pick up on their signals.