Email: Being a survivor [LG]

People believe what they want to believe, and if their motives are selfish rather than oriented towards finding the truth... What a mess.

You have been overloaded. Of course men think sex is the best way to release tension, but that's because they're not as emotionally complex as women. So don't sweat the petty things (or pet the sweaty things). [A man should] like you just for who you are. Anything else (if ever) is gravy on the cake (to mix metaphors).