Email: Initiative and upgrades [DB]

I suspect women outnumber men 10-20:1 [on eharmony --] as they probably would on any religious site.

Men seem to have all the options they want... because women give them away (in the name of chivalry). I could not be a woman and give away all the initiative to men. I know women have certain kinds of initiative that are too mysterious for me to understand. ;-) I just find it slightly depressing if I don't have an outlet for a healthy amount of autonomy.

Upgrade your iMac if possible. I got rid of that crapware Internet Explorer long ago! Download Firefox and all your problems will go away. It's not Apple, it's Microsoft that's the problem.