Email: Manipulative jerk [EH]

Men deserve a bad rap if they truly act irresponsibly (and the many stories I hear all qualify). At the same time, I doubt women who manipulate men are being honest about their part in the equation. An impartial observer can tell who is being the manipulative jerk -- man or woman. It's about selfishness not sincerity, taking not giving, twisting not bending, imposing an agenda instead of live and let live.