Email: Count your blessings [EH]

I have never liked the term "damaged goods" and I would never let someone close to me use it of themselves.

I have warned you (and any other women I know) away from online dating for some time now, except for possibly eharmony (which I see has become full of opportunistic bums also -- and could be cleaned out if every woman they did wrong to would report them, because eharmony cares about the quality of its members and does eject members who act rudely or unethically). Again, stop licking your wounds and recounting all that has not worked out -- count your blessings not the curses!