Email: Special and spiritual [EH]

[It isn't enough for your suitor to be] one of those guys who would love to be your helper and protector. Yes, you could (marry and) set up a home and get along well (he'll kill spiders, you wash the doilies). What's best for any couple [though] is a special and spiritual chemistry that says "We're exceptionally good together." The divorce rate would be much lower if most couples looked and waited for that -- instead of settling for "We're so-so, average-to-middling, or mediocre together." [It's essential to know what a mountain peak looks like so you don't settle in a valley or plateau.]