Email: Living our lives [SD]

If Pia [Mellody] teaches us anything, it's that we all respond in predictable ways to frustration and disappointment. Denial is quite common -- at least half the time. Yes, you are doing fine: You are doing something about it, which is more than most people do! I didn't say how long it might take you; you could take less, you could take a lifetime. I'm just saying don't think "soon" as being a few weeks or months. For those of us who are trying to learn these things, we don't put our lives on hold until we learn it all first. We go on living our lives in the midst of all our uncertainties.