Email: Dater, know thyself [SS]

Separated people usually need time before they consider a relationship -- even though they think they're ready at the time. [Questions to ask yourself:] Are you seeking a platonic friend or romantic partner? Short-term or long-term? (I know; it seems so complicated!) Good kisser or great kisser? (I know it sounds funny, but men and women really must have an answer for this, because they "settle" all the time.)