Email: Do something [EH]
Please REPORT men to eharmony who are clearly lying or scamming you; at the very least it will save other women the same unpleasantness.
DO NOT feel sorry for yourself. If you regret something, DO SOMETHING about it. And doing something does not mean putting yourself passively at the mercy of another's capricious whims. STOP focusing on and even magnifying the negatives, it will NOT help you. Be faithful and positive in the little things and the bigger things will come to those who are patient.